Raising children today comes with constant pressure—not just from family, but from strangers online. Jordan Driskell, a 31-year-old father of five 5-year-old quintuplets, knows this better than most. Managing five energetic kids the same age is no easy task, especially when they’re curious and eager to explore. To keep them safe in public, Driskell came up with a practical solution—child safety leashes. Previously, the family used a six-seat stroller, but it quickly became difficult to manage and uncomfortable for the kids.

The leashes allowed the children more freedom to move around while helping their father keep them close and safe. However, after Driskell shared a video of a family trip to the aquarium, the internet reacted strongly. The clip went viral, gaining over 3 million views and sparking criticism. Many commenters argued that using leashes was inappropriate, saying children shouldn’t be treated like animals. Others questioned the parents’ ability to manage such a large family.

Despite the backlash, some experts defended the approach. Parenting specialist Dr. Deborah Gilboa explained that using a leash does not harm a child’s development. She noted that if the alternative is keeping children confined at home, then a leash can be a helpful and safer option—especially for younger or neurodiverse children.

She added that as children grow older, parents should rely more on communication rather than tools like leashes. Ultimately, parenting styles differ, and many believe parents should have the freedom to make choices that best ensure their children’s safety without facing constant judgment.